If you are pregnant, the greater your chances of being vulnerable to serious Covid-19 illness.



A September 2020 report by the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) stated: “Pregnant women with Covid-19 were found to be more likely to be hospitalized and require ICU admission than non-pregnant women.”



According to South Africa’s Department of Health, pregnancy is a time when the immune system changes so pregnant women “should continue with standard precautionary measures such as avoiding crowded places, limiting the use of public transport where possible, washing their hands regularly with soap and water, and avoiding touching their face”.



Already in Africa, the World Health Organization (WHO) has stated that maternal health – or the health of women during pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period, and their reproductive health – is a human rights issue.



Sandra Orta, General Manager for South Africa &amp; Sub-Saharan Africa at Roche, a global partner in pharmaceuticals and diagnostics, agrees.



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Orta says that there are considerable gaps in maternal health interventions like antenatal care. Or the fact that WHO also reported that every day, approximately 830 women die from preventable causes related to pregnancy and childbirth; and 99% of all maternal deaths occur in developing countries.



Maternal mortality is higher in women living in rural areas and among poorer communities.



“The poorer the area, the more the area is affected,” Orta says to FORBES AFRICA. “And now with Covid-19, we don’t have exact numbers because it is still too early but what we have seen is that patients have been going less to see their doctors or having to postpone their appointments because maybe there are restrictions or no public transport.”



And what is also not looked into, Orta adds, is how antenatal care brings emotional support to the mother.



“What we need to remember is knowing that the baby is ok and healthy; that brings you less anxiety and moms need to be supported. Everything that we feel, the baby feels as well.”



The biggest challenge in South Africa, according to Professor Koleka Mlisana, Executive Manager: Academic Affairs, Research and Quality Assurance at the National Health Laboratory Service (NHLS) and also co-chair of the Ministerial Advisory Committee (MAC), is that there is no data that specifically looks at pregnant women.



“So the burden of Covid-19 among pregnant women would just come from admission surveillance work that is done by the NICD (The National Institute for Communicable Diseases),” Mlisana said, in an interview with FORBES AFRICA in June.



“There is a serious lack of data because we don’t know how many pregnant women we have in [the] country at any point of time.”



“That is a sign that there is no good or not enough antenatal care,” Orta adds, “Antenatal is not taken seriously enough, and it is a serious problem. However, it is a millennial goal to ensure that there is better access to antenatal care.”



But the data that is available point to the fact that 10% of Covid cases are made up of pregnant women.



“What surveillance work is showing is that pregnant women have a higher risk of hospitalization compared to [other] women, even though they are in hospital.”



In South Africa’s initial vaccine rollout phase, only pregnant women with comorbidities or at higher risk of infection could receive Covid-19 vaccinations, but now, with vaccines encompassing the younger generation, women of childbearing age are all included.



“Women are key pillars for our communities, for families and it is very important that we look after them,” Orta says.

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Pregnant Women And Covid-19: Risks And Reports

In recent years, surrogacy has become increasingly popular among single women and gay couples. For heterosexual single men, it’s still a rather unusual path to follow but that is changing.



BY PAULA SLIER



SOUTH AFRICAN MEN ARE MAKING HISTORY, choosing to become single fathers by choice. In March, Wesley Hayes, a 35-year-old divorce attorney won a year-long battle to legally register his daughter, Justine Filly – her second name reflects Hayes’ love of horses. 



Andrew Martin, a fertility lawyer who heads his own firm in Cape Town, has successfully registered a number of babies for single fathers through surrogacy over the past decade. One of Martin’s clients is a 46-year-old Johannesburg business consultant, Gavin Phillips*. 



Since November 2019, Phillips has undergone three unsuccessful IVF journeys and is now about to begin his fourth. 



“I’ve always wanted children and after I lost my father to Alzheimer’s in 2017, the need to extend my family, and have a legacy, became more intense,” he says. 



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<blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow">It’s exciting and I hope it’s something we see more of. We have the technology to do these things and there are definitely men who would make good parents and if we can help them, it’s a lovely thing for us to be able to do. – Dr Tasneem Mohame</blockquote>
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Phillips was married and unfortunately despite efforts to have a child, those efforts did not bear fruits. “After we got divorced, I considered adopting a child, and then I started to research surrogacy.” Traditionally, it’s heterosexual couples who go this route. Globally, one in six such couples struggle to conceive, regardless of whether they come from low-, middle- or highincome countries. But in recent years, surrogacy has become increasingly popular among single women and gay couples. 



For heterosexual single men, it is still a rather unusual path to follow. Dr Tasneem Mohamed, an obstetrician gynecologist practising at the BioART Fertility Centre in Johannesburg, has dealt with only two requests in the last two years from single men wanting to have babies. 



“I think maybe a lot of men out there don’t know it’s an option for them,” she says. “And probably a lot of them who’ve thought about it just get shut down by their families. It’s a lot of responsibility raising a child on your own, but maybe once single men know it’s possible, we could see more of them coming forward. 



“It’s exciting and I hope it’s something we see more of. We have the technology to do these things and there are definitely men who would make good parents and if we can help them, it’s a lovely thing for us to be able to do.” South African law stipulates that those seeking surrogacy as well as the surrogate herself must be South African or resident in South Africa. 



“This is to protect local South Africans from being taken advantage of by foreigners coming and using them as surrogates,” explains Dr Yossi Unterslak, a gynecologist and reproductive medicine specialist at Vitalab Fertility Clinic in Johannesburg. 



“There’s no restriction on the egg or sperm donor. But if it’s a single man seeking surrogacy, it has to be his sperm.” 



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As much as 40% of patients seeking fertility treatments at Vitalab come from abroad – the vast majority from countries in Africa where such treatments are inferior in quality. 



“Shop around and find a clinic that is close, affordable and offers treatment but also be careful,” warns Dr Unterslak. 



“There are countries that allow cross-border surrogacy like Ukraine and India, which are quite popular.&#8221;



“Look at the law to make sure you are not going to go through the expensive process of generating embryos and then after the baby’s born, there’s an issue getting the child back into your country.” 



Surrogacy does not come cheap. Success rate the first time around is around 67% which means the bills can add up. Phillips estimates he’s already spent nearly a quarter of a million rands (about $17,000). 



“There’s the buying of eggs, the fertility clinic, lawyer fees and treatment cycles. Legally, the surrogate can’t earn money from doing this and so I also contribute towards costs of her pregnancy, her medical aid and life insurance. There is a provision in the agreement that says that she is required to try at least three times. The fact that we are on our fourth shows you that these surrogates care and commit to these surrogacy journeys with deep empathy and altruism.” 



But the process can be laborious. The first step is choosing a donor. 



“You get to see their health records, family history, whether they smoke, take meds, drink, how much they exercise,” says Phillips. “You get to find out their eye color, hair color, height. You get an idea of their academic ability, their sporting ability, whether they’re introverted or not and you get pictures of them up until the age of 11 because of anonymity concerns.” 



Out of 27 possibilities, Phillips eventually found a donor he was happy with. He donated his sperm to fertilize her eggs. Once the fertilization had taken place, mature embryos (blastocysts) were then frozen until the surrogate had been prepared through various stimulation treatments to receive a blastocyst transfer (IVF). Unfortunately, after three attempts, and although the surrogate fell pregnant each time, the pregnancies did not progress, resulting in miscarriages.



Phllips, then, in an effort to give the surrogacy route another try, decided to change donors and also underwent personal genetic testing to determine if there were any chromosomal abnormalities (of which there were none).



“I’m hopeful, my new donor has got good qualities in terms of what I would like for a child, but genetics can go back six generations. So, you might see something from your great, great, great, great grandfather come out in your child. Not everything is a guarantee but what you want is really healthy eggs from a successful donor (a donor that has donated eggs in the past that has resulted in a pregnancy).”



Phillips has also sent the embryos he has available from this fertilization cycle for additional genetic testing called Preimplantation Genetic Testing for Aneuploidy (PGT-A). This helps mitigate any risks around implanting embryos that could present with chromosomal abnormalities, prior to commencing with the next round of IVF. If all is normal in the results, a fourth round of IVF will proceed.



Says Phillips: “I feel I have given myself the best chance available for success. I know that 50% of the success is in the hands of science and the rest is in the hands of a higher power – if the stars align, I could be a father in 10 months’ time. Sadly, there’s still a stigma attached to single men having children on their own and the argument that a child allegedly needs a mom. I’ll be the mom and the dad, and I’ll protect and nurture my child with everything I have. I also won’t give up until I have completed this beautiful journey. My child/children will know how much love went into conceiving them,” he says.



Both Phillips and Hayes feel that the concept of a nuclear family is changing. No longer does it mean two point four children and a husband and wife. 



Families today come in all shapes and sizes – single mom, two moms, two dads, single dad.



“Relationships are not my forte,” admits Hayes. “I’m very independent and I don’t necessarily find myself best suited to living with somebody and having to make joint decisions about a child. I’ve done enough divorces to know that it’s an unpleasant business and in a number of cases, the children are used as a pawn in the divorce proceedings. As a single parent, I don’t have to concede to anyone. It sounds very selfish, but I don’t have to take anybody else’s opinion into consideration.”



But the process can be quite invasive. “I had to undergo psychometric testing and a psychological evaluation. The social worker looked into my circumstances and interviewed my family and friends to see what my environment was. I also had to prove that financially I am able to look after a child. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing, but it is invasive.”



But it was all worth it the moment he saw Justine for the first time. 



“I wasn’t there for the actual birth itself and arrived moments after she was born. I found her in a little incubator and I just recognized her. I immediately saw small bits of myself looking back at me,” he smiles.



“Africa is by and large a patriarchal society so I can’t see why being seen as the head of a family and being seen as the father of a child without a mother is an issue. There are many single fathers who’ve lost their wives for various reasons.



“Nobody can say that my daughter is unwanted. She was absolutely 110% planned and a 150% wanted and is unimaginably loved. Just as thousands of children don’t have fathers, I think it’s going to become more commonplace that children don’t have mothers.”

Wesley Hayes and daughter3

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Her birth was cloaked in secrecy. It shocked the world and was mired in controversy. In 1978, when Louise Brown, the world’s first test tube baby was born, police officers packed the corridors of Oldham General Hospital in England.
The controversy was from religious leaders concerned about altering the “natural plan” to fears that science was constructing &#8216;Frankenbabies&#8217;. It was so bad Brown&#8217;s mother received hate mail and even a plastic foetus. Her birth changed the definition of baby-making.
Almost four decades on, that definition is still valid and an accepted norm in the annals of science and society.
According to 2013 statistics by European In-Vitro Fertilisation (IVF) Monitoring, more than five million babies have been born through IVF.
It paved the way for a further twist — surrogacy.
Was it worth carrying another person’s child, given the risks and considering that like any pregnancy, surrogacy could also lead to maternal and childbirth-related deaths?
According to the World Health Organisation (WHO), every day, about 830 women die from pregnancy and childbirth-related causes. It was estimated that in 2015, about 303,000 women died during and following pregnancy and childbirth.
“With every pregnancy you always worry something might go wrong… but in a surrogate’s case, there are so many other people depending on the outcome,” says surrogate mother Shelley Fourie.
In some countries, depending on how you look at it, the risk may be worth it.
According to Families Through Surrogacy, a consumer-based non-profit surrogacy network, in the United States, surrogates are paid about $68,000, in Poland, $35,800, and in India $22,500.
In South Africa, commercial surrogacy is strictly prohibited and subject to criminal prosecution. A surrogate may only be reimbursed for her loss of earnings or any out-of-pocket expenses directly relating to the surrogacy process and pregnancy such as for vitamins, traveling costs and medical costs. Yet still, intended parents give surrogates money.
“It’s a very difficult thing. Let’s face it, what people will go through months of uncomfortable symptoms related to pregnancy for nothing,” says one parent who has a son through a surrogate.
According to another Cape Town-based surrogate, Rikki Walsh, the question of payment is a difficult one.
“On the one side, it is a great thing, because I feel it’s too easy to take someone hostage for money if payment was allowed. On the other side, often the couples feel guilty because they have no clue how to say thank you. I think a happy medium could be reached, with a set legal amount – as it is with egg donation,” she says.
In the pages that follow, FORBES WOMAN AFRICA speaks to three surrogates in South Africa who gave up a year of their lives to bring joy to couples struggling to have children.
<h2>Shelley Fourie: ‘I was helping someone else have their one and only.’</h2>
<div id="attachment_32898" style="width: 359px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-32898" class=" wp-image-32898" src="http://www.forbesafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/089-Maternity-Framed-by-Claire-Photography-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="349" height="524" />Shelley Fourie (Photo by Claire Photography)</div>
There has to be a special place in heaven for people like 43-year-old Shelley Fourie.
Working at a fertility clinic in South Africa’s Mother City, Cape Town, exposed her to the deep pain of parents struggling to have children. She couldn’t bear it anymore.
In November 2015, her friend, also a surrogate, introduced her to a gay couple looking to have children. They had tried surrogacy and failed.
“Our biggest suspicion was, and still is, that our surrogate mom did not use her prescribed medicine, for a successful implant, diligently. My suspicion was that the side-effects of the medicine influenced her&#8230;” says couple Nelius and Mario Botha Ferreira in a letter to their unborn baby.
They were emotionally drained and took a break from trying.
“Our desire overpowered our losses, and this is why we are back in action and more motivated than ever. 2016, God-willing, will be the year our boy or girl (or both) will be born,” reads the letter.
After meeting with the couple and hearing their story, Fourie says she not only understood their pain but felt a close connection to them as if they were long-lost friends. It was her chance to help.
“My business partner and friend was a surrogate in 2015 and I was there with her every step of the way and was lucky enough to be at the hospital when her couple received their baby. The amount of happiness and joy I saw from that couple made me think, I could do this,” says Fourie.
Although surprised, her family and friends were supportive of her decision — even her 11-year-old son who has always wanted a sibling.
“I explained to him [that we couldn’t afford another baby] and told him that he would be my one and only. He was a bit worried he would no longer be my one and only. I explained to him that we would not keep the baby and I was helping someone else have their one and only.”
The result? A healthy four-kilogram baby boy born on March 29.
According to Fourie, for surrogacy to work, a good relationship needs to be formed between the surrogate and intended parents.
“You are going to be ‘married’ to them for a little over a year. You need both to be supportive and understanding of each other. We had a great combination of everything. As all great stories end, they lived happily ever after,” she says.
Fourie says she would do it again. If she does, many families will have their one and onlys.
<h2>Jacqui Burns: ‘Everyone should experience the gift of children.’</h2>
<div id="attachment_32901" style="width: 1153px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-32901" class=" wp-image-32901" src="http://www.forbesafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/surrogacy-088-300x201.jpg" alt="" width="1143" height="766" />Jacqui Burns (Photo by Motlabana Monnakgotla)</div>
It must rank as one of toughest but encouraging surrogate pregnancy stories South Africa has ever seen.
Previously, FORBES WOMAN AFRICA told the story of Theo and Christo Menelaou, a gay couple from Pretoria who struggled to adopt, only to have three children through a surrogate.
It was a tough pregnancy.
At seven weeks, the surrogate was told she was expecting twins. A mere two weeks later, a 4D scan revealed she was carrying triplets. One of the eggs had split into two. She was carrying identical twin girls and a boy.
That’s not all. At 10 weeks, she found out fluids were being transferred from one twin to the other causing the one twin to grow well and the other to lag behind. The doctor advised her and the intended parents to terminate the pregnancy. They didn’t. Instead, they went to a specialist to help them carry all three babies to term.
It wasn’t the end of the battle. At 18 weeks, more bad news came. One of the twins had a heart condition. Still, they waited in hope the triplets could be carried to term. At 29 weeks, the surrogate started feeling uncomfortable and had to be admitted. Two days short of 32 weeks, she gave birth to identical twins, Zoe and Kate, and their brother Joshua.
We meet the surrogate who made it all possible, 34-year-old Jacqui Burns, a petite woman who welcomes us with a big smile.
“My sister knew Theo and Christo wanted to have babies and were thinking about surrogacy. My sister said ‘you are crazy enough to do something like this’ I don’t think she realized how crazy I actually am. My husband and I had been talking about it for a while so I made contact to help and I was in it for the whole way,” says Burns.
The mother of three says she had very uncomplicated pregnancies so there was no reason for her to worry.
“Everyone should experience the gift of children and the joy it brings,” she says.
According to Burns, there are many misconceptions about surrogacy and the most commonly asked question is, ‘How do you give up your children’.
“From the get go, I know they are not my children. I am just an incubator helping them grow so they can grow. Every other issue that may arise is also taken care of under the law and the surrogacy contract.”
Her husband Victor has always been supportive.
“It became easy after meeting Theo and Christo. Surrogacy is not an easy process for the intended parents and the surrogate but I will support her no matter what she chooses,” he says.
He was so supportive they would joke about it.
“He would say, my wife is pregnant, but it’s not mine. It would shock everyone,” says Burns, laughing.
Victor says it was tough for his wife and their own children when she had to be admitted to the hospital but they didn’t worry much as they had a good medical team.
To make it easy for their children, they had some explaining to do.
“Our children knew that they weren’t getting siblings and the babies weren’t ours. When the second one asked ‘where do babies come from’, I told them that God comes and puts a little seed in mommy’s tummy… we told them uncle Christo and uncle Theo don’t have a mommy in their house so they asked God to put their seeds in mommy’s tummy so they could have children… that helped them understand better,” says Burns.
Although Burns says the South African law has done well on regulating the industry, she says there are a few things that can be improved.
“If it was not regulated we could have an India on our hands but I think if it was legally allowed to pay a certain amount of money, there would be more surrogates. Right now, there is a long list of people looking for a surrogate… Also, there are so many couples struggling to have children but this process is too expensive,” she says.
But she has proven that where there is a will, there is a way.
<h2>Rikki Walsh: ‘I had lost someone else’s child.’</h2>
<div id="attachment_32900" style="width: 338px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-32900" class=" wp-image-32900" src="http://www.forbesafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/0018-Birth-Framed-by-Claire-Photography-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="328" height="493" />Rikki Walsh (Photo by Claire Photography)</div>
Rikki Walsh wanted to be a surrogate before she even had children.
“I was told I would feel differently once I did,” she says.
It wasn’t true.
In South Africa, you have to have a child of your own before being a surrogate for another family. So, first, Walsh donated eggs six times, worked at a fertility clinic and when she finally had children and her youngest of two was two years old, she took the leap of faith.
“I was talking with one of our donor couples who was looking for a new surrogate and felt like giving in and I knew this was the right time to offer, which I did,” she says.
She went home to tell her husband. According to Walsh, his response was “there is nothing to talk about. This is something you want to do and I will support you”. It meant everything for Walsh.
“This meant even more because he also had to go for psychological evaluations, to social workers, and lawyers not to mention put up with a pregnant wife.”
Sadly, she miscarried the first time they tried.
“I felt a huge amount of guilt. I had lost someone else’s child. I think the pressure weighs on you even more, because you know the emotions, costs, everything, on behalf of someone else, that you are carrying. Each scan, you are terrified until you see the heartbeat. It’s easier once the baby is moving though. At least there is daily ‘proof of life’,” she says.
To ensure everything goes well, first Walsh and the intended parents had to be on the same page.
“The most important thing with a surrogacy is that all parties are on the same page. [Make sure] that you want the same out of the journey. I personally feel that perhaps the intended parents and the surrogates need to be matched via personality. Because surrogates are few and far between, I think there is often a ‘we need to take her as soon as possible’ [mentality] regardless of you getting along on a personal level. This is a journey that will be at minimum a year, there needs to be at the very least a good feel between them,” says Walsh.
Without any problems, Walsh gave birth to a baby girl in the next attempt.
“The looks on her parents’ faces when they saw her for the first time was one of the most magical moments of my life… I would be happy to do it again.”

Would You Carry A Child For Someone?

My entire life changed when I got pregnant, and my husband’s hardly changed at all,” says 30-year-old Lilly Jensen (name changed to protect identity).
In a few months, Jensen went from being a successful managing editor at a local magazine on a promising career track to a stay-at-home mom.
Her pregnancy, and the subsequent maternity leave, completely derailed her career. With her baby at home, little support structure, unreliable help and a husband not legally allowed to take paternity leave, she had little choice. After two months back in the office, she quit.
“I wouldn’t have felt so helpless if Jack had been allowed to take leave,” she says. “I might have made a different decision if I’d had the support. I felt I had no other option.”
Maternity leave is often treated as a punishment in the workplace, says Manisha Maganbhai-Mooloo, a partner at Adams &amp; Adams Attorneys, a South African law firm.
With no legal equivalent of maternity leave for new dads in South Africa – fathers may take three days of paid family responsibility leave around the birth of the baby, if it’s not used up on other events the leave was designed for – the bulk of the responsibility and burden of parenthood falls on the mother.
“Pregnancy is treated as a penalty and almost acts as a halt to promotional prospects,” says Maganbhai-Mooloo.
“Projects are halted and a women’s career is sent on a completely different trajectory.”
Anita Bosch, lead researcher at the Women in the Workplace Research Programme at the University of Johannesburg agrees, saying that pregnancy is treated as an anomaly. Keeping in mind that the workplace was developed with men as the model workers, maternity leave negatively impacts a woman’s career, says Bosch.
“You hear comments around the workplace about a ‘staffing problem’ when employees fall pregnant.”
The legal minimum for South African maternity leave is four months unpaid, and it only applies to women. There’s no paternity leave, no leave for adoption, or surrogacy.
“It’s left to companies to offer more generous policies to their employees,” says Maganbhai-Mooloo. And if companies don’t offer paid maternity leave, employees have to turn to the Unemployment Insurance Fund, a government-run organization, to pay them a monthly stipend. A year later, and Jensen is still waiting for her payout.
“I don’t know how single moms do it,” she says.
Maganbhai-Mooloo is frustrated by the inherently unfair maternity law in South Africa. Despite good labor laws, even by international standards, South Africa lags behind with legislature on maternity.
“The law needs to be amended to allow for paid paternity leave and paid maternity leave,” she says. “Not to mention surrogacy and adoption leave.”
However, in her opinion, the ideal should be shared parental leave that can be evenly divided between the two parents, to split the onus of parenthood and equally distribute the effect a baby has on both career paths. After a challenging birth, and a severe bout of post-partum depression, Maganbhai-Mooloo herself would have preferred her husband taking paternity leave soon after birth, with her maternity leave kicking in only after she’d dealt with the baby blues.
South Africa still has a long way to go. With mothers penalised for pregnancy, and fathers unable to step-up, paternity leave would help to equalize the playing ground. Unpaid maternity leave also places new mothers at a huge disadvantage. As a 2013 report by the Human Rights Watch discovered, unpaid maternity leave can lead to serious consequences for health, finances and career paths.
“I felt like a deadweight when I was pregnant,” says Jensen. “And I shouldn’t have to feel like that.”

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